The subject of domestic violence has been in the news and on the airwaves in Boston, as Philadelphia Phillies pitcher Brett Meyers was recently arrested for assaulting his wife on the street outside a local bar. The incident reminds us once again that domestic violence is a reality in far too many relationships, and that fame, money, and social status do not protect against it. What interested me most in following this story was not the incident itself, which of course was disturbing, but the reactions to it. As a litmus test for how we view domestic violence in 2006, some responses were disappointing and others were heartening.